
Is there a particular dessert that you find absolutely mouthwatering? One of those sweet-tooth satisfying dishes that makes a four-course meal look like a garnish? All kinds of desserts come to my mind right now, but one in particular seems to stand out. I really like mint chocolate chip ice cream. Whenever I realize that there’s a carton of it in the freezer, my mouth gets excited. Eating a scoop of mint chocolate chip is like having a fireworks show go off in your mouth. The creamy texture and bold flavor of the cream bursts on your palate, while the chocolate chips go rolling around, tickling your taste buds wherever they travel. No other ice cream can come close to rivaling the thrill of eating a waffle cone of this mouth-watering flavor.
Needless to say, mint chocolate chip ice cream is definitely my favorite. But let’s say I meet someone who can’t say enough about how much they savor a cone of pistachio. I could suggest that they are mistaken. I could correct them and explain that what their taste buds truly desire is a delectable bowl of mint chocolate chip. They would probably counter and say that they were perfectly fine with pistachio, and have no intentions of converting to a different flavor. And thus the debate could go on and on, until we finally decide to quit and go to Baskin Robbins.
When the pistachio-lover and I part ways, will anything have been accomplished? More than likely, no. If anything, we’ll probably leave even more solidified in our respective ice cream preferences. Arguing about which flavor is better is ultimately a lost battle on each side — neither person is going to concede their position. The dispute will go back and forth, back and forth, with no change in sight. While this may be a rather silly and humorous illustration, there is a much more serious parallel.
Whenever a Christian witnesses to an unbeliever or engages in apologetics, there is a strong tendency to bring the conversation down to the argument level. One person presents their position, the other refutes them, and on and on they go. Nothing is accomplished. No one is ever going to enter the Kingdom of God because some Christian blasted their position with a superior argument. It never works that way. In Matthew 6:44, Jesus said that “No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him…” People are not argued into the Kingdom of God. They are drawn in by the Father. When this truth is realized, witnessing and apologetics take on a whole new face. The burden is not on us to present an argument that wins people to Christ. We may be the instrument God chooses to use in sharing or defending our faith to someone, but we are never the ones who draw them in. Our job is to simply share the gospel and give a reason for the hope that we have. We need to leave the rest up to God.
The purpose of apologetics is not to create arguments, but to give a response to them. There is nothing wrong with responding to someone’s challenge, but the response needs to be courteous and loving. That’s rarely an easy thing to do, especially when you feel hurt and defensive after your faith is challenged. However, consider what Paul said in 1 Corinthians 13:1-3:
“If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.”
Whenever we engage in apologetics, our ultimate goal is to point people to the gospel of Jesus Christ. What they choose to do with our presentation is completely up to them. As long as we are faithful in our representation of Christ, present an answer for the hope that we have and make our responses in love, we can be content to leave the rest in God’s hands. Again, none of us come to the Father by our own efforts. We only come if He draws us. Witnessing and defending the faith are tough assignments, but choosing to give the results over to God make them all the more exciting and refreshing. Even mint chocolate chip has to take second place in this one.
“Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.”




